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AT WORK - not-too-serious suggestions on how to dress at work
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What to do when you invite someone round, how to set the table, how to arrange the seating.  A few simple rules for you to remember.

AT WORK - not-too-serious suggestions on how to dress at work

 

For Women
Less Is More
Understatement is the hallmark of the well-dressed. Generally, five minutes after a business meeting, your associates should not be able to remember what you were wearing. They should be able to remember that you were well-dressed. If people remember your clothes, then your clothes are making the statement - not you.
Mirror Your Company's Image
Even if it's casual Friday, if you're expecting a client at your office, or you're going out of the office to meet clients - keep in mind that you are a reflection of your company. Always look your best when meeting with clients and customers.
Be Neat
You can wear a $600 skirt suit, but if your blouse is wrinkled or there's a grease spot on your jacket, you've just blown your professional image.
Don't Be Revealing
Whether intentional or not, blouses that are too low cut, slacks that are too tight, and dresses or blouses that are transparent send a strong non-verbal message: that you're not authoritative, competent, or reliable.
Dress for Daytime
OK. So you have an after-work engagement. Bring a change of clothes to the office and go to the restroom and change after work. Wearing eveningwear to work is always a bad idea.
Avoid Tackiness and Trends
Colors that are too loud, fabrics that are non-traditional, and trendy clothing send a message that you either don't care about proper business dress or you don't know what proper business attire is. Either way, you lose credibility.
The One Piece of Jewelry That's Essential
While too much jewelry is a distraction in business, the one piece of jewelry you should never be without is a nice watch. Wearing a watch shows you have a sense of the importance of time. However, avoid cartoon-character watches and overly large sports watches. They send a message of frivolity.

 

For Men
Believe it or not, there are more rules for office dress for men than there are for women. Let's see some of them.
The Tie
This traditionally has been considered the most important accessory for men. Some people maintain a tie should express your individuality; others advise being safe and conservative with your tie choices for business. The 'rule' here is the same as for women's business attire: people will always forgive you for being too conservative, but few people will forgive you for not being conservative enough in most business situations.Keep your tie width in line with the width of your lapel; wear wide ties with a wider lapel, narrower ties with narrower lapels.
Hats
Hats carry more connotations than any other accessory. Choose a hat style that looks good on you. The only exception: never wear a baseball cap to the office.
Belts and Suspenders
Coordinate belts with shoe color. The widest acceptable width for the office is one-and-a-quarter inches. Suspenders are meant as an alternative to a belt, not an addition. Coordinate suspenders to the tie. How wild you get with patterns and colors is dictated by your corporate culture.Le bretelle possono essere indossate al posto della cintura, non in aggiunta. Non esagerare con l'altezza della cintura o con la larghezza delle bretelle.
Jewelry
Less is more. A wedding ring, a watch and perhaps one other ring (such as signet or family crest) are acceptable. Bracelets and neck chains are rarely acceptable in any business setting.
Eyeglasses
Don't let your frames date you. Choose updated styles that go well with your face shape.
Umbrellas, Wallets, and Pens
The black umbrella is still best for business; leave the bright-colored ones for casual weekends. Wallets should be thin, of high-quality leather, and dark in color. And, don't opt for a $1 plastic ballpoint pen. Choose a writing instrument of high quality.
How Much Hair?
The clean-shaven look is still preferred in most workplaces. However, a well-trimmed beard is usually acceptable. The fad among younger workers is a Van Dyke (or goatee). The plain mustache is passé; and extreme mustache styles are out of place in most business environments.

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